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so Friday night the cheer coach tells Daron AFTER the pep rally that she can't cheer the Sat night playoff game.....even though she cheered the last football game and we thought the drama was over!?!? Right? Wrong.....she slams her with "your not safe " to tumble..."the hatchet game was an exception" etc......ARE YOU KIDDING ME! So of course she tells this to Daron and her and the assistant coach are gone by the time I get the info.....

Yes it could have been stalking....but I started calling both of their phones IMMEDIATLY....explained to them that this was unacceptable and I needed to speak with her face to face right now....called clear up until midnight and left her a message that said..."you and I need to talk...I don't care who you have there...community, JESUS, principle, SHERIFF, etc. Neither one of the cowards would call me back!! So needless to say I went home with a crying kid and a temper like a hornet.

5am...Saturday morning....I figure if I can't sleep they aren't going to either....and I started on the phone....finally I leave her a message that states that "dicussing this business in front of the cheerleaders is the wrong thing to do call me back ASAP" "SHE" calls back.....I wish I could mimic her voice on this blog....in her best "I have to sound nice cause I have a job but I really want to rip your lips off your face voice" she asked me to call her because after having the cell phone STRAPPED to my fingers and body for 12 hours....I was in the barn and there is no service and of course "murphys law" I miss the call because the metal in the barn cancels all cell service!

I call her back....ugly....thats the only word I can use.....u-g-l-y. She maintains Daron "CANT" do a back handspring...then concedes that she "CANT DO IT CONSISTANTLY" and then I say listen...I am sick of you and this drama and I want an end to it today...I call her on the carpet...I say...."if daron does her back handspring TODAY does she cheer the rest of the year?" she says "YES"......meet me at the school at 1:30......

I will admit...Daron had issues in the beginning with her back handspring...one time she landed it and the next time she would bite the pavement...but NO ONE has taken the time to find out or view Daron with her back handspring....she has been doing it beautifully for over a month....

I sat Daron down and said S@#$ or get off the pot sister.....today is the day that you have to do it perfect single time....its now or never.....the coach wants to see you do it on the track.....its gotta be pretty...every single time!....

Off we go to the track.....GUESS WHOS THERE???? The school assigned Sheriff!!! I pull up and say..."hey whatya doing here on a Saturday?!?!?!" He was like "I don't know why they have me working today....haven't worked a Saturday in years!" I am thinking...is this a coincidence or did they tell him to go to the school??? Look at the second paragraph if you missed it!

I told him there might be just a little drama today....he was like ha ha....don't want to have to arrest you....I said "no....really there might be a little bit of drama"...would you mind sticking around to here what I have to say as a witness....then the coach takes Daron out on the track and Daron does 4 beautiful back handsprings one right after another....Blah....in your face Cheercoach....she comes over with her big ole fake smile on her face and we have another controlled confrontation.....she hung herself on a few phrases......what a great witness......school assigned sheriff?? What a great alibi! I told Daron in front of "her" that if Daron has a problem she has my permission to go to "her" and explain her issue...that she has no reason to be afraid of her and this is a life lesson that you need to SPEAK UP AND DEFEND YOURSELF....the whole time she is standing there with a fake on her face.....Daron does have a responsibility not to stand in the shadows and hide but to get a backbone and get out there and make sure the coach sees her abilities on the tumbling...I told Miss Daron that having a defeated attitude and not taking up for yourself right on the spot will get her in an abusive relationship and she will end up with an eating disorder....stand up tall and stand up proud....she doesn't have to take verbal abuse....even if she is a kid and a minor...its been an important life lesson for her to learn......Now ladies and gents I know the drama is far from over....she will use any oppurtunity to place a dig to the kids who then in turn come home and tell us all about it.......like I said before it ain't over till the fat lady sings....I have only warmed up a few times....